4.13.2012

To Be Like the Pioneers

Wow, there is so much that I want to say about the Trek that the hubby and I went on this past week. It was one of the coolest and most challenging things I’ve ever done. I enjoyed it immensely and also grew a lot through some wonderful experiences and trying times as well. I learned a lot about some of the kids in our Stake, as well as myself and the hubs. It was really cool.

Before I recount some of the major points, I wanted to kind of go over what it is that we did. Our church group (what is called a “Stake” and made up of local members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints), organized a youth trip for the kids age 14-18. It was a re-enactment trip to honor our pioneer ancestors and to get a better feeling and understanding of the things that they experienced and went through while making their way across the country to find religious freedom.

All of the kids chose to go (okay, to be fair, some parents probably coerced some of the kids to go, but it wasn’t a requirement from the Church at all). They all chose to give up their Spring Break week and trade in beach days for camping in the wilderness, cooking their meals in dutch ovens, and pushing a thousand-pound handcart across the backcountry.

It was quite the experience.

The hubby and I were asked to be a Ma and Pa of a ‘family’ of kids for the week, and to be honest, we accepted without hesitation. I had never been on a Trek like this before and I was really looking forward to it. As the days grew closer, however, I started to get really nervous. Not only had I never been on a Trek before, I had never been a Youth Conference parent before and I was worried not only about physically making it up around the mountains, but also about the emotional and spiritual responsibility of caring for 10-12 teenagers and all that entails. But luckily it turned out wonderfully and we had a lot of great experiences that helped us not only learn about our pioneer heritage and those that came before us, but we also got the opportunity to learn about ourselves in the process. I’m so glad we went.

Okay, so I’ll let the pictures start talking for themselves and see where we end up…

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Getting all our gear packed and ready to go. I won’t lie, I did feel kind of silly when we stopped at McDonald’s for our last bathroom break and people were giving me funny looks inside. The hubby turns to me and says, “So you’re my what, fourth wife?” Made me laugh. *

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The hubby with our big brother and big sister. These were the two ‘older kids’ who in charge of devotionals, setting up work assignments, and just generally helping out. They were great.

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Our trek family!

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I was there, I promise. Just mostly behind the camera instead of in front of it. And I did opt to bring my small point and shoot camera instead of my big, heavy duty Nikon. It was a good decision all around, even if the photo quality suffered a little. I’d rather have a good back and poor photos than the other way around at the end of the week!

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We had a burlap sack with rice in it that was our ‘baby’. We had to keep it safe, watch over it, and make sure it didn’t die on the trail. If it did, we would have had to stop and have a funeral for it and bury it. We decided ours was a girl and named her Emma.

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They had actors come in and tell some stories about the pioneer that came before us. This was a bad guy who was issuing a warrant for Joseph Smith’s arrest, I believe.

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And here comes the mob with Joseph (the kids in the white shirt).

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They stripped him down, and they tarred and feathered him. It was quite dramatic.

(Luckily for the volunteer Joseph, it was just chocolate syrup and marshmallows. But still impactful. :) )

Then the speaker stood and said, “In Joseph’s day, this would be a very terrible treatment. And the question must be put to you: What would you do in defense of your faith? Would you be willing to be tarred and feathered? Would you stand up for the Lord Jesus Christ and the truth that you know has been restored?”

Because that is exactly what the pioneers did in defense of their beliefs and the reason why they trekked across the country through terrible circumstances. Because of their faith in Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ and this restored Gospel.


We then headed off for our first leg of travel. We walked through the hills as the sun started to set and we had a beautiful view.

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As the sun set, we continued on. Soon it got dark, and we were in this valley, when all of a sudden, we came around a bend and there was a giant spotlight on us all, illuminating the road. I looked up, confused at first, to see what it was, and it was a gorgeous full moon. I was so surprised to see how bright it was and what a difference it made to our visibility of the trail. It was great.

We made it to the campsite after dark, got our coals started, and made a late dinner. That night we slept outside under tarps and it was the most miserable night of the week. The temperatures were at freezing, and some of the women had frost all along their tarps and inside them as well. It was so cold that I only slept about an hour total the whole night. I kept wanting to burrow myself down into my sleeping bag where it was warm, but then I would start to feel claustrophobic and have to stick my face out to the fresh air, making me cold again. Like I said, it was the most miserable night of [non]sleep that week.


The next morning we made our breakfast, and started out again.

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We hiked along a paved road and had some beautiful scenery, which was a running theme throughout the trek.

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The kids (and the hubby) had to push the cart up this big embankment and it took some muscle!

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I carried Emma for a while.

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Our big sis Erin found a pretty poppy.

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We stopped for lunch in a beautiful field. Of course, it was full of ticks.

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The horses stopped for lunch too.

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Then we were off again and trekked down the hill into a valley where we found that we had to cross a ‘river’. With our handcarts. But first, we needed a volunteer to swim across to bring the lead rope to the other side. Our own kid, Thomas, was just that volunteer! We were really proud of him.

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Here is the first cart, getting all set up and ready to be sent across the river.

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If it looks perilous, that’s because it was! Half of the ‘raft’ that the carts were on was always in the water and it sat on the edge of staying afloat and falling over many times.

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They made it to the end! That was a miracle in and of itself.

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Here’s another cart – you can see that they’re basically in the water almost the whole time. And in the cart was all of our stuff, so you can imagine the terror of having that tip over and go under!

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And here comes our cart! My heart was in my throat the whole time because MY clothes and things were actually packed in there, and I was really nervous at first.

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But then our kids were ROCK STARS and got the boat level and balanced right off the bat.

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So much so, that Erin even had a chance to do some modern dance moves. ;)

So I had nothing to worry about. Thankfully.

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Getting pulled in.

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Made it safely!

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Our big brother, Jeremy, taking care of baby Emma with Sierra watching close by.

The rest of that day, we trekked to our camp and cooked dinner. I was so tired I didn’t take any more pictures for the rest of the night, haha.


And for days 3 and 4, you’ll have to come back soon because I’m breaking this bad boy post up into a couple of parts so you don’t get bored out of your mind!

*And just for the record, we Mormons DO NOT have multiple wives. It was a joke. ;)

4.11.2012

Fun Friend Day

Today we got to hang out with my dear friend Tracy and her great kiddos. I sure miss that girl since we’ve moved away from MV. It’s always nice to get to see her again, and the kids love playing with each other. We took them out to lunch to celebrate our Spring birthdays, then headed over to the park to play. It was a fun day.

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J pushing E on the swing.

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The boys all loved swinging!

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W and J, aren’t they the cutest little guys?!

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W being silly with J and R wondering what the heck he’s doing!

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Best buds

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They had to get in their silly picture too. :)

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Thanks for a fun day, my friend!

3.23.2012

Looking Back

Recently I came across some photos of W when he was just over 6 months old. I LOVED seeing them, because it reminded me of that cute little, chubby-cheeked baby that used to crawl around the house and try as best he could to keep up with his big brother.

And while he still does his best to shadow E as much as he can, he sure has changed in the last couple of years! Now he runs instead of crawls. It reminded me just how fast it all flies by and so I wanted to make a scrapbook page about it. Here’s how it turned out!

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How adorable was he?? Seriously, makes me melt.

Happy Friday!

PS: This layout uses Jady Day Studio’s Silly Billy Bo Billy Collection, Christy VanderWall’s Scatter It Action and Track It Action.

3.14.2012

To be like the pioneers

Back in January, the hubs and I were asked if we would like to volunteer to be Trek parents for our Stake’s Youth Conference this year. We were told it would entail being in charge of a group of 10 teenagers, ages 14-18, while embarking on a pioneer trek re-enactment of sorts up in the hills around Riley’s Farms. We were shocked that we had been asked, but were really excited at the prospect of doing it, so we said yes.

Of course, that was in January, when April seemed really far away and we had plenty of time to prepare ourselves to be walking 10+ miles a day while wearing pioneer clothing and pulling an authentic, loaded handcart.

Now it’s only a few short weeks away and I’m getting nervous! Of course, we’ve been walking here and there, trying to condition ourselves, but we haven’t done what we wish we had. I’m sure we’ll be fine, it’s just the tense waiting part that is upon us now, which brings all the questions of “Do we have everything we’ll need?” “Are the kids going to be okay while we’re gone?” “Am I really prepared for this??”.

Luckily this past weekend we had a meeting with those in charge and we got to do some dutch oven cooking and see what it is going to be like actually preparing our meals and everything out on the trail for 4 days. Since the meeting, I’ve been feeling a lot better prepared about the whole thing, because I know what I’m going to want to have with me. That was the biggest fear for me, not having been on a trek before, and just not knowing what things I’ll really want to have (that may not necessarily be on the official packing list) with me. And it was also a good chance to get dressed in our gear (meaning a dress and apron for me) and see how that feels wearing it around all day.

Besides feeling a little more prepared, it was actually fun to be there and get to hang out with our big sister (there is a big sister and big brother in each ‘family’, who are older kids that are in charge of a lot of the planning). The kids were dropped off by the in-laws about half-way through it, so they got to try out some of the games and stuff. They had a great time and E kept saying he wanted to be a pioneer too. It was cute. :)

Here are some pictures of the day:

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In the car, just arriving. I have a more official apron that I’ll wear – I don’t think they’d appreciate me showing up in a Williams-Sonoma one for the real trek, ha!

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Playing some pioneer games. This is one where you put your hands in the middle and everyone grabs a hand, then you try and untangle everyone into a straight line. It was tough!

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Stick-pulling. This was fun to watch the boys play.

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E liked it so much that (of course!) he had to try it himself!

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Cute W in a sweet pioneer hat.

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E looking sharp in the hat too!

Let’s hope that the hubs and I both make it through okay. Actually, I’m sure we’ll be fine and it will be a wonderful experience for us.

3.12.2012

Friends like these are hard to come by

Saturday night was bittersweet.

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Marisol and I

Sweet because we got to visit our dear, dear friends the Mayberry’s, bitter because it will most likely be the last time we see them for a while. You see, they’re moving to France for the next three years! And while the dream is that we now have an excuse to visit Europe, the reality is that we may not make it there to see them. And three years is a long time!

We moved away from Mission Viejo (where they live) about 3 years ago now, but we’ve managed to keep in general contact with them throughout that time. Marisol is one of those people that you just love to be around because she’s fun and funny and always willing to talk. I love laughing with her and she’s just easy to be around.

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Tracy, Marisol and I

Her, myself and my dear friend Tracy all lived in the same ward (church boundaries) and we all had our kids around the same time. They basically grew up together for a good couple of years. We have always had this easy friendship that is just comfortable and fun. I miss those days!

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The three of us with our ‘original’ kiddos.

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Us three with all of our current kiddos

But now, there are changes on the horizon – new homes, new adventures, and a lot of growing to do. We will miss you, Mayberry’s! But we know that you’ll be soaking up the French lifestyle. I hope we’ll be able to make it out there someday to see it.

Love you! Have a grand adventure!